Here's my 2 cents (the rest of my money is going either to Phil's girl's college fund or Monica's shoes).
Somehow I truly feel sorry for the man. He was born into abuse, poor, gained fame, became an Icon, feared the outside world, hurt children, spent the better part of the last few years being called "Wacko Jacko" (which I actually think is hillarious!), having faux romances (Lisa Marie Presley, the love interest from the video for "The Way You Make Me Feel,Naomi Cambell), paying a women to have his children, mental illness, public embarrassments (too many to list actually), failed music releases, illness and dying maybe too soon.
Yet, after a telling Vh1 Doc about him and by being a fan myself, I truly feel sadness for the man. I will forever remember him for his music and in particular these songs...